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Sunday, November 5, 2017

My Brother's HOA is Hilarious.


So a little while ago I was at my brother’s beautiful home. We had just set up a new basketball hoop for his kids, so as well-mannered and responsible fathers… is that laughter… I am taking names. We of course had a dunk contest… crushed it. Afterwards we of course had the 3-point competition and this is where our adventure takes, A TURN. I lob a shot towards the hoop it bounced straight up, and with the slowest bounce I have ever seen. The bounce was so slow I literally had time to say, “there is no way that breaks the window, Right?” the ball lightly taps the front window of my brothers how and Shatters it like the dreams of an Iowa girl getting off the bus in Hollywood hoping to be a movie star. SHATTERED. As we stood their wide eyed, and for me at least, embarrassed. We realized well the windows were single pain 30 years old and let in more heat than the Broncos offensive line. So my brother started the process of replacing his front windows. He quickly realized he had to deal with the three scariest letters in home repair. H-O-A. That right, before purchasing his new windows, he had to get the color, shape, size, and company approved by the.. H-O-A. You see the home owners association is an organization meant to keep a neighborhood on the same footing. Keeping yards clean, houses visually appeasing, and the most anal and nitpicky amongst the community busy for 2 Tuesdays every month. Really HOA’s are there to make a community play by the same rules. So that one house doesn’t destroy the esthetic or code the community agrees to.
This has many upsides. Great looking homes, high property values, heck some even have a community pool that is inside your HOA dues. Yet this has some downsides. Like, I don’t know, being threatened with a fine because you haven’t had a chance to paint your chimney the HOA approved color because you work two jobs and are passionate about the work you do at your church. This downside also made it so my brother had to work for almost 6 weeks before getting his Window replaced, and while waiting on the HOA he got contacted… by the HOA… about his broken window. So do you see where some frustrations might start to build.
There is a belief that to live in God’s HOA (Heart owners association) we have to work to follow all those rules. These items that make us proper Christians to live in God’s neighborhood. By keeping our actions consistent. Coming to church Sunday, giving a base tithing, and trying to do a service project once a year. We fulfil our side of the covenant. Sadly, that is the old HOA covenant with God. We have so much to do to live in God’s community. As if we can act close enough to perfect that God will pass by us on his HOA walk though. Our cloths are clean enough, our words are clean enough, our handshake is firm enough. As long as we appear to be right with God, that must be the case. It isn’t, we will never be good enough for God’s HOA. “For No human being will be justified in his sight” Romans3:20. With Jesus the covenant was changed.
Christ’s covenant isn’t that we are to work to live with God, but that Christ wants to live with us. Those whose homes and hearts had been ravaged by wear and tear. Some of us can empathize with this. My home has bushes that are untrimmed, yards covered in leaves, both my living room and family room covered in the toys of a highly active 5 and 3-year-old, even my bedroom has shoes and clothes at the foot of the bed. My heart is the same, overburdened with the stress of work, with the worry that my son is doing well enough in school, the fear I am not supportive enough as a husband. Both my heart and home show that beating of use over time. Christ see’s our wear and tear and says it is not what the house or heart looks like that matters. It is a much simpler question. Is it open? Is your heart open to those who are in the most need? Is your house open to those who knock? Are you willing to show your imperfections not to emphasis your own frailty but to Glorify the strength of God?
For what becomes of Boasting? It is excluded. By what law?  By that of works? NO, but the law of faith. For we Hold that person is justified by faith, apart from works prescribe by the law.
Our New Heart Owners Association Covenant is clear. No matter how Good you make yourself look. No matter how many houses you build, no matter how many services you attend, no matter how many sermons you give. We are all justified by the same thing. A faith in the one who presented you his grace. If you have the cleanest house with the best décor, or you have have a home covered in toys, spaghetti stains and dog hair. Grace has been given to you through Christ jesus our lord. We can not do enough to move into God’s subdivision.  So God sent his son to live with us. To live in our imperfection. To live in our frailty, fear, and selfishness. In Christ Jesus God signed up for our HOA. “The Righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all who believe. For there is no distinction. For all have sinned and short of the glory of God. They are now justified by his Grace as a Gift. “ Our Homes and our hearts are impossible broken, just as God designed. So that we may not depend on our own works, but only on the grace of God.

In this imperfection God’s HOA calls us to one simple thing. Believe. Believe his love abounds over you. Believe you can be his hands and feet. Believe you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Believe the community of believers are imperfect but can do impossible things. Believe in yourself, for you are a creation of God. Just Believe – It’s a covenant we all can sign. This covenant frees us from the burden of unreal expectations. This covenant frees us from self-loathing, fear, and frailty. For in that covenant of belief we are given a gift, for in that Belief in the Son, We will be Free Indeed.  -Amen